know this:
You see what needs to be done, and you are willing to say so.
You are willing to go into a confrontation and argue because you know that what is right will prevail, and confrontations often help get things moving.
You can jump into a conflict, crisis, or emergency and take charge of the situation.
Other people may feel threatened or put off by your power and assertiveness. When others label you as bossy, it points to an opportunity to manage and develop your Command talents.
Command talents are valuable because they help you positively impact other people. You can help people and entire organizations get through difficult times and make substantive changes in the midst of chaos.
try this:
Be ready to lead when others waver. Seek roles in which you will be asked to persuade others.
Take on every worthwhile challenge you can find and bring others along with you. You will lead others out of their comfort zone and into new territory where growth is the only option.
In your relationships, seize opportunities to speak plainly and directly about sensitive subjects. Your unwillingness to hide from the truth can become a source of strength and constancy for your colleagues and friends. Strive to become known as a candid person.
Help your colleagues and friends make commitments. You can provide the spark that will inspire them to act.
Find a cause you believe in and support it. You might discover yourself at your best when defending a cause in the face of resistance.
There are times when you need to manage your compulsion to take over. Let situations unfold without always feeling like you need to step in.
Facing your personal challenge:
Your directness can be an acquired taste. But that is not an issue when the time is right; it is when you are direct at the wrong time that you can squander your creative value.
Watch out for: Your tone - it needs to match the situation.
Key question(s)
When is it best to not take charge?