know this:
You want to win, which usually means outperforming others.
You will work hard to excel — especially in comparison to others.You constantly compare yourself and your performance to other people and their performances.
You may not be willing to try something if you think you can’t 'win' at it. Other people may consider your competitiveness in- appropriate and therefore push you away, reject you, or accuse you of being arrogant.
try this:
Aim for first place, and you'll always finish strong.
Create daily measures of success for you and the teams you are involved with.
Strive to learn what it takes to win consistently.
Frequently review measurements of your past performances.
Your talents will naturally drive you to identify and surpass your personal records. Take the time to celebrate your wins.
In your world, there is no victory without celebration. Seek competitive friends. Turn ordinary tasks into competitive games.
You will get more done this way. Know when it's time to say "winning isn't everything in this situation."
Finding win-win solutions can lead to positive relationships with others while maintaining your own motivation.
Facing your personal challenge:
This is a powerful drive that is relentless and unforgiving. You will compare yourself endlessly to everything around you - and in areas you cannot compete in, you will simply give up or sabotage others. This drive needs to work for you, not you for it. The key to harnessing its strength will be to define the values that will underpin how you win.
Watch out for: Trying to win at everything. You may not have any friends left.
Key question(s)
When is it ok not to be number one? When is better to push through than to give up?