know this:
You bring enthusiasm to people, groups, and organisations.
You can stimulate people to be more productive and become more hopeful. You can get people excited about what they are doing, causing them to become more engaged in their work.
Some people will criticise you for being so optimistic. They may say you are naïve, and this may cause you to doubt yourself.
try this:
Direct your energy to help others see that there is always a silver lining.
You tend to be more enthusiastic and energetic than most people. When others become discouraged or are reluctant to take risks, your attitude will provide the impetus to keep them moving.
Deliberately help others see the things that are going well for them. You can keep their eyes on the positive.
Because people will rely on you to help them rise above their daily frustrations, arm yourself with good stories, jokes, and sayings. Never underestimate the effect that you can have on people.
Increase the recognition you give to others. Try to tailor it to each person's need.
Explain that your enthusiasm is not simple naiveté. You know that bad things can happen - but you simply prefer to focus on the good things.
Pessimists might superficially seem wiser; they might even sometimes be right - but they are rarely happy.
Facing your personal challenge:
You need to focus on what is right, and to do so quickly and exclusively, can prevent you from fully understanding the seriousness of a situation. Serious means damage has taken place and so healing is required. So be careful of forcing on yourself and others an image of what a positive result will or should look like and the timeframe in which it will take place. Encourage, but be realistic, or you will lose your joy and you may even lose a few friends (ironically).
Watch out for: Moving through serious issues too quickly.
Key question(s)
When is it ok to be unhappy?